Morpheus : You are The One, Neo. You see, you may have spent the last few years of your life looking for me, but I’ve spent my entire life looking for you.

I’m sure that you can still remember this scene from the movie, The Matrix. You almost wanted to be Neo in the movie. Imagine being told that you are someone special and that you are “The One.” It’s very similar to Jesus’ message to his disciples as written in the book of John. He said, You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit.

How cool would it be if this same message was said to you by someone you look up to? What kind of warm feelings and happy emotions would you feel if your idol or mentor told you that he has been waiting for you all his life and that you are the chosen one?

The Chosen One
Being The One means that you have a special mission in life to become a hero and that you are destined to do heroic deeds. By doing heroic deeds, you become a hero. Conversely, by believing that you are a hero, you do heroic deeds. Two questions immediately come to mind: Who is a hero? What is a heroic deed?

Who is a hero?
Three definitions from Merriam-Webster are worth mentioning. A hero is 1) a person admired for his achievements and noble qualities; 2) one that shows great courage; and 3) the central figure in an event, period, or movement.

The reason why I chose these definitions from Merriam-Webster is because they don’t state that a hero must risk or sacrifice his own life. It’s a known fact that many, if not all, of the heroes that we pay tribute to are usually the ones who have risked or sacrificed their lives for their countrymen and for the Motherland. We remember Andres Bonifacio, Jose Rizal, Emilio Aguinaldo, Apolinario Mabini, Gregorio S del Pilar, Emilio Jacinto, Gen Antonio Luna, Marcelo H del Pilar, Melchora Aquino, Diego and Gabriela Silang, among others.

Growing up, we learned about their heroism and how bravely they faced death in defense of the Motherland. Most, if not all, of our national heroes died for the country. Social psychologists will agree that the Filipino’s mind is conditioned to believe that heroism equals martyrdom. For us, heroism demands the ultimate sacrifice - one’s own life. And this message is greatly reinforced in our Catholic faith. Jesus, we are told, had to give up his own life so that we may live. The messiah, the ultimate hero, could not fulfill his mission in life until his death on the cross. Some would even go as far as saying that his mission in life was to die on the cross. Catholicism usually honors martyrs as saints. Even in the Bible, we are told that Jesus said, My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends

Conrado de Quiros in his Inquirer column entitled Heroes, pointed out that there could be something wrong in the last line of our national anthem which reads, Ang mamatay ng dahil sa iyo.

From our national heroes, to our religious heroes, to the lyrics of our national anthem, each and every one of us is conditioned to believe that to be a true hero, you must die in martyrdom for what you believe in.

What is a heroic deed?
My personal definition would be this: A heroic deed is an act that promotes positive consequences for the greater good, even if it means that the doer has to face risks and/or sacrifices. Moreover, a heroic deed should not, in any way, intend to bring harm to innocents.

By this definition, a heroic deed can be as simple as opening a door for a woman, or helping children cross the street, or offering your seat to the elderly. Using this definition, we can understand why the government recognizes Overseas Foreign Workers as our country’s modern-day heroes. With this definition, we begin to recognize the simple acts of heroism exhibited by people who return lost-and-found valuables to their owners, by agents of the law who stop criminal acts, and by ordinary citizens who go out of their way to do small acts of kindness.

As said in the book of Proverbs, from small beginnings come great things. When we learn to appreciate small heroic deeds, we will begin to recognize the individuals whose achievements have brought honor to the nation. They are the ones who have made a difference in the lives of our countrymen. People whose service and dedication to their work deserve merit and honor from the government. They are the modern-day Filipino heroes and we should have a system in place that will give them credit for their achievements and/or service. We can pattern it after the UK Honours System. One example of the UK Honours is the knight/dame award wherein a successful individual is knighted by the Queen and gains the title of Sir or Dame. I suggest that the winners in our own version of the Honours System should also get their prizes and awards with pomp-filled ceremony during National Heroes Day on national TV. This will send a strong message to our youth that you don’t have to die to be a hero. You can be a national hero simply by being good at what you do and by providing meaningful service to your community.

A New Message
Is it time that we re-evaluate the message that we are sending to our children whenever we emphasize that to truly love God, you must be willing to die for your faith and that to be a hero, you should die for your country?

I’m not suggesting that we forget the sacrifices of our national heroes. What I am proposing is that we shift our focus away from heroes who have died for the Motherland and turn our eyes towards the heroes who are still in our midst. The ones who are still alive. We must highlight the achievements or the services of our modern-day Filipino heroes - individuals who have led successful lives for themselves, for their families, for their community, for their countrymen, their community, and ultimately, the country.

It’s up to you whether you prefer to do simple deeds of heroism or you choose to contribute on a more massive scale, or both. But the message is clear: You can be a hero too.

Mabuhay ka, ikaw na bagong bayani! Mabuhay ang Pilipinas!

Lester G Cavestany
August 26, 2007 - National Heroes Day

 

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