I was in the Philippines last week for a 7-day holiday. And I had a blast! I am now back in Vietnam and the new school term is in full swing. But just before my holiday ended, I left my heart in Manila.
What is it about the Philippines that fills my entire being and consciousness with such intense longing to be back in her loving arms?
Let me count seven ways:
1) THE PEOPLE - Family comes first! On my first day back, I watched my sister and her schoolmates compete in the Sketchers Street Dance Competition at SM Fairview. I was really pleased to see how well my sister can dance. Working overseas has helped me in my career and in my finances but I have missed the opportunity to watch my sister grow into a beautiful and talented young adult. I have also missed more than five years of quality time with my parents. They are not getting any younger and so I would like to spend more time with them.
Then, there’s also friends. Friends from grade school, high school, college, EVOLVE, online community and many others. I really enjoy their company and I look forward to seeing them again.
From family, to friends, to your average Juan and Inday, Filipinos are the best kind of folks I know. Ika nga ni Robin, “taas kamay na nga ako sa ‘yo, mahal na nga yata kita. Maging sino ka man.”
2) THE MALLS - No holiday in Manila is complete without a trip to the malls. There are malls that cater to the masses, and others that are for those who can afford to spend a bit more. But the nice thing about the malls in the Philippines is that every one is welcome. Whatever social class you belong to, you are welcome to spend time and relax at any of the mega-malls in the Philippines. And if malling is your cup of tea, be sure to visit the third largest mall in the world, SM Mall of Asia.
3) THE RESTAURANTS - Food, glorious food! If you feel the need to prove that the Philippines is a global country, then you only need to check out the line-up of restaurants that you can find everywhere in Manila, Cebu and in other metropolitan areas in the country. From French cuisine to Mediterranean to Asian, we can be proud of the fact that we are open to other flavors of the world. Could this be a reflection of our openness to other cultures as well? I remember I read a study once about the Filipino’s innate curiousity to learn and experience other cultures. Could this be the reason why our overseas foreign workers find it easy to adapt to the ways in their country of assignment?
And then of course there’s Filipino food and the growing market for it, here and abroad. With the massive migration of Filipinos everywhere in the world, there will be more and more Filipino restaurants in the country and elsewhere. Why do you think there are so many Chinese restaurants in the world? It doesn’t take a genius to figure that one out.
4) THE COST OF LIVING - I know that many of us don’t realize it yet but Manila is one of the cheapest cosmopolitan cities in the world. According to the 2006 global survey done by Mercer Human Resources, the cost of living in Manila is the second cheapest in Asia and the fourth least expensive of the 144 major cities in the world. Another way to measure cost of living is the so-called “Big Mac Index”(BMI) - the cost of a Big Mac in a country is a reflection of the cost of living. In the 2006 BMI survey done by Swiss banking giant UBS, the PHilippines is one of the least expensive cities in the world.
Simply put, you get more bang for your buck in Manila. But this fact begs the question, where do you find your mega-bucks in Manila?
5) THE CINEMAS - Back when the power of Hollywood was still in its infancy in Asia, Filipinos were already addicted to foreign movies. The former first lady, Imelda Marcos, even showcased the Philippines as the “Cannes of the East” in the Manila International Film Festival in 1982. This huge foreign influence has helped us grow our own local film industry. And even now, the growing trend of independent films abroad is affecting our filmmakers who are venturing into the less commercialized but highly-respected “indies”.
Whether it be Hollywood or indie, local or foreign, there’s nothing like going to the cinemas and watching a movie on the big screen.
6) THE TOURIST SPOTS - If you have local knowledge, then you will truly enjoy nature trippin’ in the Philippines. My Mama is from La Union and from infancy to adulthood, we would enjoy spending our annual summer break in my Mama’s hometown. And of course, growing up in Manila, we would always take short beach trips to the lovely province of Batangas.
On my next holiday, I plan to explore the southern parts of the Philippines. My memories of my short trips to Cebu, Boracay, Bohol and the other provinces in the South need to be refreshed. And it’s now easier (and cheaper) to do this, thanks to Cebu Pacific.
7) THE X-FACTOR - After thinking of all the reasons why I feel homesick, I am still unsatisfied with all the answers I came up with. Maybe, just maybe, the best answer I can give as to why I long to be back home, is because there’s something about the Philippines that’s beyond words and explanations. I have no choice but to admit that this sense of wonder I have for my country is the one of the main reasons why I ask to be back in your loving arms, O my Motherland.






13 Responses to “h o m e s i c k (7 Reasons Why I Love the Philippines)”
3 out of 10 of the largest malls are located in the Philippines
http://waketrex.com/blog/2007/09/25/worlds-largest-shopping-malls/
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i’m curious, what’s the first cheapest city in asia then?
now i get your comment on my blog about the bulalo ang bangus belly
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Hi Wake T-rex, thanks for the info. Having big malls – boon or bane? What do you think?
Hi ris! I read that the cheapest city in Asia and probably in the world is Dhaka, Bangladesh.
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Hi, Lester.
May I suggest some components for the X-factor? — all of the above, the atmosphere that the people created, plus a few more. Perhaps we can include the annoying yet endearing behavior, the fiestas (where one can still get a free lunch), the imprecision of Filipino time, the bahala na attitude (karma, if you will). Nostalgia is such a powerful emotion.
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Fwd email circulating:
Valedictory Address of an OFW in Malaysia
Ophel Belo is the valedictorian for 2007 at the recently concluded
graduation ceremonies of the Filipino Workers’ Resource Center - Skills
Training Program (FWRC-STP) here in Kuala Lumpur. Although she never became
my student at FWRC-STP, I was fortunate enough to work with her during the
center’s numerous events. She’s quiet but efficient, unassuming yet smart.
Despite her brilliance, she is working as a domestic helper here in KL.
In her valedictory address, Ophel had a lot to say about the sad state
our country is in.
Myrna Ordonez
VALEDICTORY ADDRESS
by: Ms. Ophelia A. Belo
Excellencies, Ambassadors Lecaros and Brillantes, Mrs. Lecaros, Labatt
JBJ and Mrs. Jimenez, Faculty Advisers, Embassy Officials, Filcom Leaders,
Malaysian Nationals, Princess Becky, Datu Lim Sun Hoe and Datu Sunny Lim,
Honorees, Guests, Fellow Students and Graduates, Friends Countrymen and
Visitors, Good Afternoon,
I thank God for this honor and I express gratitude to my country and
government for this opportunity. I accept this distinction with both joy
and sadness. There is joy in my heart right now because once again I
have proven that there is a reward for hardwork, dedication, and excellence.
But I am sad right at these moment, I am sad for our country and for our
people. I am sad for you fellow graduates. And I am sad for myself.
I am sad that the Philippines, the homeland of brilliant, highly
skilled and very articulate people, is now becoming the number one supplier
of cheap labor including domestic helper into the booming world of global
markets.
We can kid ourselves by saying there’s nothing wrong in being a domestic
helper. Oh come on! I am a domestic helper myself and I’m not ashamed to be
so. But then, what?
I am looking at the big picture and I am looking at our country and I am
disappointed that there is not much hope if we remain there. I am
regretful that every single day, no less than 3,200 Filipinos are leaving
the Philippines, many of them for good, in the hope of finding jobs that can
send our children to school, buy medicines for our sick, repair our
dilapidated shanties or pay for all our indebtedness.
What happened to the Philippines?
Our country is supposed to be the Pearl of the Orient Seas. In 1961,
many Malaysians used to envy the Filipinos. They dreamt to study in UP, La
Salle or Ateneo. Today, Malaysians are the employers of Filipino domestic
helpers. They have sent an astronaut into space, while the Filipinos are
still quarrelling about government contracts and alleged rigging of
elections.
We, the OFWs must begin the process of the renewal for our country. The
FWRC is our center of excellence to be able to compete globally and turn
around our country.
The global labor markets are unforgiving. The avalanche of rising
demands for quality comes rushing every single moment and the standards of
excellence keep on rising without pause. Only those who never stop learning
will survive in this crazy and mind-boggling competition for skills.
Filipino engineers and technicians in IT who surf the cyberspaces for
emerging opportunities find themselves competing with highly competent
Indian computer wizards. Indians are also emerging as our OFW’s top
competitors in the global labor markets.
Our oil and gas engineers are still preferred by Malaysian employers
because the local chemical and mechanical engineers prefer to work in UK and
in the Middle East. This is the result of globalization of human capital.
Our domestic helpers from the Philippines are still the preferred ones
by Malaysian royalty, high government officials and top businessmen. But the
Filipino domestics represent only a miniscule 2% of the entire DH
market in Malaysia, Indonesia commands more than 90% of the 500,000
household service providers in this country. But the Philippine government
is aiming for QUALITY employment. We frown upon QUANTITY or high volume of 5
D’s: the jobs that are DIRTY, DIFFICULT, DANGEROUS, DEMEANING and DECEPTIVE.
Even if the Filipina DHs are only few, they enjoy superior benefits.
They enjoy Sunday day-offs every week or at least every another week with
the two Sundays paid for when they are not allowed to go. They have much
higher pay and better terms and conditions of employment. They are allowed
to study in the FWRC Skills Training Program.
The Filipino household service workers, along with other OFWs do study
in FWRC. They learn word processing, spreadsheet, internet, illustrator,
photoshop, autocad and multiple computer applications. They study
Commercial Baking, Advanced Cake Decorating, Western Food Cooking, Basic
Nursing, Reflexology and Arts and Crafts. They even learn the Art of
Communication, Composition and Correspondences, Business and Social
Correspondences, Financial Management, Business Development and
Entrepreneurship.
The Labor Attache and top Embassy Officials teach BLAWSFIL (Basic Labor Laws
for Filipino, a subject created by Labat JBJ as a means for
empowerment, to arm the OFWs with fundamental knowledge of the labor and
family laws, immigration and even contract laws and criminal statutes. The
migrant workers from the Philippines are aware of their rights as well as
obligations to employers and host government. They have less chances of
being arrested and detained and they are more confident when confronted with
legal issues.
OFWs from Malaysia who are now venturing to UK like Lyn dela Rama and Gene
Sarmiento, both outstanding FWRC alumnae, have better chances of survival
and even excellence in more challenging work environments. Former FWRC
resource persons like Dang Penarubia who migrated to Canada have better
probability of success than others who went withoug FWRC KASH (Knowledge,
Attitude, Skills and Habits)
Today, the 21st of October, here in the Grand Ballroom of Crown Princess
Hotel in Kuala Lumpur, few shall graduate those among the 490 who
enrolled in January, survived the grueling holistic training in FWRC. Today,
the word GRADUATION should be understood as a process, not an end, a process
of enhancing elevating, improving and developing the KASH positions of the
OFW who made the correct decision to study in FWRC.
Today, also is a COMMENCEMENT, a starting point, a beginning, a point of
embarkation to a higher level of consciousness, to a better perspective
in life, a much improved point of view and a stronger, higher quality of
qualification, a better state of readiness, an empowered new beginning
of the rest of our lifetime journey.
The quest for excellence, the drive to win the global labor markets, the
hunger for bigger challenges, the thirst for learning — an insatiable
yearning to learn more — these are the hallmarks of men and women who
are geared and programmed for success in life.
The next motto of FWRC is “ON TO THE MARCH FOR EXCELLENCE,” both in skills
and in Character. Both committed and competent. Thus, today is indeed a day
for celebration. But after the celebration, we need to do something for our
country.
And so today, ladies and gentlemen, what are we going to do to create a
meaningful difference in the future of our country? Evil triumphs
because good men do nothing. Let us all do something, no matter how small.
FIRST, let us not remit everything that we earn here. Let us save at
least 50% through the Samahang Impok Bayan and keep it until we go home for
good.
SECOND, let us all take courses in the FWRC that will help us in our
reintegration like Business Management, Entrepreneurship Accounting,
Basic Laws and other relevant courses. Indeed it is only bring EXCELLENCE
THAT WE CAN TO THE GLOBAL WORLD.
THIRD, let us all write to our congressmen, let us write to our
newspaper, let us e-mail jour opinions and let us be active in denouncing
the abuses of our political leaders.
FOURTH, let us rally behind honest and hardworking officials and staff
in government but let us denounce and expose and charge all those who
violate their oaths as public servants.
FIFTH, let us help in the FWRC. Whatever honor we receive today should
provide us an inspiration to share our knowledge to other OFWs.
SIXTH, let us discipline our families at home. They should learn to
value our remittances and not squander them in luxuries. Let us let them
learn that we worked hard for the money and we should not tolerate
extravagances.
SEVENTH, let us all be aware of all the economic, social and political
developments in our country. Let us monitor what are the trends and
programs of our country’s future. And let us share our thoughts with
those who spend our remittances.
AND lastly number EIGHT, let us all be aware that all that were, all
that are and all that will be in the Philippines are driven by economic
realities, high population growth, labor excess economy, cheap labor,
globalization without safety nets, insufficient social services. All
these are exacerbating the pains and sufferings of our people.
These are the reasons why the joy of my success today is eclipsed by the
sadness in our situation as a nation and as a people.
We’ve got to feel the pain so that we will do something about it. We can
not continue deluding ourselves. We have to face realities and bite the
bullet.
According to a great social scientist: THE FUTURE BELONGS TO THE
DISCONTENTED. The Filipinos should start to be discontented with our
situation and tell our leaders of our discontentment.
According to a Chinese Philosopher: IT IS CRAZY TO EXPECT DIFFERENT RESULTS
IF WE CONTINUE TO REPEAT THE SAME MISTAKES. The Filipinos should accept that
there are for too many mistakes and we have to correct them.
And according to Dr. Jose Rizal in his NOLI ME TANGERE, recorded in the
history of human sufferings is a cancer of so malignant a character
that the least touch irritates it.
Since the time of Rizal until now more than a century after, the cancer
is still here — a SOCIAL CANCER, AN ECONOMIC MALADY.
The only difference is that we can do something about it. Yes we can.
And we should. No matter how strait the gate and how charged with punishment
the scroll, we are the masters of our fate. We are the captain of our souls,
to borrow from Invictus.
Kaya mga kababayan, dapat umpisahan na ang pagbabago, umpisahan sa ating
sarili. Kung hindi ngayon, kaylan pa? Kung hindi tayo and mag umpisa, sino
pa? Bahala tayo sa ating kinabukasan at bahala tayo sa kinabukasan ng ating
bansa Pakaisipin ninyo ito. Huwag kayong masyadong magsaya. Dapat magkaroon
din kayo ng lungkot, upang magsikap kayong magbago. Dahil ang mga problema
ay hindi nakakatuwa.
Marami pong salamat.
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in my point of view, Filipinos are still ignorant or letting evil run, as they said, evil triumphs when good men do nothing
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come home soon, we miss you!
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Hi Neonate, we should definitely add those things you mentioned. Thanks for the inspiring valedictory address of Ophelia Belo. Tunay siyang makabayang Pinay!
Dear Chocoerin.. Yes my friend, we have much to learn about fighting evil. The day will come when good will triumph over evil. Let’s make it happen
Hi Lindsay
thanks for visiting my weblog my gorgeous and talented and smart sister. I love you. Take care. I’ll do my best to do what I have to do while I’m abroad so I can come back to Manila for good. I miss you.
Hi Trips Asia! Thanks for your kind words. If you need help in setting-up your website, you should contact Marc of Sheeromedia.
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this list could have been my own — food, malls, restaurants and movies! grabe, miss ko yan. at syempre pamilya. hmm…me thinks i’ll make up a list of my own for my next post. ;-p
salamat sa pagbasa ng aking tula. i saw in your profile that your from DLSU at education grad. me too! ID 89…maliit pa nun ang college of ed. mahilig ka ring magsulat…were you ever in any of the writing orgs in la salle?
padayon sa iyong pagsusulat at wag ka masyadong ma-homesick. pag tumama ang homesickness, isulat mo lang. tapos whip up some pinoy dish. that’s my remedy for melancholy
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Hi timi!
Thanks for the anti-melancholy tips.. Grabe no, kakamiss ang pinas.. Pero kaya pa, 3 more weeks and I’ll be home for the holidays
uwi ka rin ba? I’m ID 94 and I joined Plaridel.. ikaw?
Ingat,
Lester
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hi lester, buti ka pa uwi sa pinas. ako next year pa…ikain mo na lang ako hehe at ipanood ng lahat ng sine
Plaridel ka pala, galing naman. Malate ako since 89 hanggang pag-graduate ko at dami ring barkada from Plaridel. liit ng mundo ‘no?
enjoy your vacation and i’ll check back for your holiday pix
ingat!
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Hi timi, sabi ko na Malate ka e, hehe… have a nice Christmas holiday too
ingat.
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